Male Incontinence

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Male Incontinence

Post by Penwortham_Claret » Sun Nov 26, 2023 12:29 am

I was just reading this article about 1 in 8 men suffering from prostate cancer with a significant proportion of them suffering incontinence.

With the BK Foundation and the high number of blokes at an age where this could be a consideration, I’m surprised that we don’t see bins in the men’s loos. If the stats are right this will effect a large proportion of fans


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Re: Male Incontinence

Post by beddie » Sun Nov 26, 2023 7:54 am

Well done for highlighting it Penwortham, let’s hope something’s done about it. I have to admit that whenever we go out I try and plan where I’ll be able to stop/ call for a wee, as I’ve become older I seem to want to go more and more, sometimes several times within a short time, through the nights not good either. I’m sure there’s lots of men in this situation, the main thing is to make sure we get regular check ups. I’m another to praise BK for the work he’s done in helping men to get those check ups. But going back to your point there should be male bins in every toilet.

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Re: Male Incontinence

Post by Penwortham_Claret » Sun Nov 26, 2023 9:14 am

I’m fortunate that I’m not affected but so many must be every game

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Re: Male Incontinence

Post by evensteadiereddie » Sun Nov 26, 2023 9:42 am

I reckon 90% of the posters on here, Penwortham.

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Re: Male Incontinence

Post by Quicknick » Sun Nov 26, 2023 10:00 am

I used to work on an incontinence pad machine at Johnson & Johnson in Gargrave.

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Re: Male Incontinence

Post by Tricky Trevor » Sun Nov 26, 2023 10:14 am

I was out of bed 5 times overnight, a new personal worst.
Thankfully I don’t suffer from incontinence and feel for those that do.

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Re: Male Incontinence

Post by Bosscat » Sun Nov 26, 2023 12:06 pm

Quicknick wrote:
Sun Nov 26, 2023 10:00 am
I used to work on an incontinence pad machine at Johnson & Johnson in Gargrave.
I used to drive a Forklift truck in Shipping at Gargrave J&J in the late 70's
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Re: Male Incontinence

Post by ClaretTony » Sun Nov 26, 2023 5:58 pm

beddie wrote:
Sun Nov 26, 2023 7:54 am
Well done for highlighting it Penwortham, let’s hope something’s done about it. I have to admit that whenever we go out I try and plan where I’ll be able to stop/ call for a wee, as I’ve become older I seem to want to go more and more, sometimes several times within a short time, through the nights not good either. I’m sure there’s lots of men in this situation, the main thing is to make sure we get regular check ups. I’m another to praise BK for the work he’s done in helping men to get those check ups. But going back to your point there should be male bins in every toilet.
I’ve been having the night calls for some years now, mainly I believe because of my diabetes. What I find now also is I get much less notice when I need to go.

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Re: Male Incontinence

Post by Tribesmen » Sun Nov 26, 2023 6:09 pm

Hey its life for me , I always say never walk past a toilet as every tinkle helps
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Re: Male Incontinence

Post by Volvoclaret » Sun Nov 26, 2023 6:13 pm

Bosscat wrote:
Sun Nov 26, 2023 12:06 pm
I used to drive a Forklift truck in Shipping at Gargrave J&J in the late 70's
Bloody hell BC, hell of a pad if you need a forklift to move them!
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Re: Male Incontinence

Post by kentonclaret » Sun Nov 26, 2023 6:15 pm

Many people experiencing High Blood Pressure are often prescribed diuretic tablets as part of their medication that can obviously make the need to urinate more frequently more acute.
At least most public toilets have been reopened following the pandemic. During periods of lockdown it was very difficult to plan an outing even for shopping, with toilet facilities closed at train stations and in shopping centres.

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Re: Male Incontinence

Post by DAVETHEVICAR » Sun Nov 26, 2023 6:53 pm

I have been taking a “water tablet” for many years now as part of my type 2 Diabetes.
With losing a lot of weight in last 12 months 13 lbs and down to 13 stone my sugar reading has dropped to 41 .
I have eaten smaller portions and lots of walking to achieve the weight loss
However I can get up 3 times in the night for a pee occasionally and sometimes just once as this water tablet works amazingly well and depending how much water/ tea I drink in the day and evening
So when I am out walking I always make sure I am close to a public loo.
I am 79 now and will need to be more careful , I would imagine , in the new year.
Well done Barry Kilby for raising this important matter
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Re: Male Incontinence

Post by bfcjg » Sun Nov 26, 2023 7:17 pm

Problem is men don't do hoping to the doctor and getting help very well, especially with things deemed embarrassing. The NHS have recognised this .

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Re: Male Incontinence

Post by Inchy » Sun Nov 26, 2023 7:23 pm

On average I wake up 3-6 times a night needing a wee. It’s more of an anxiety pee than a full bladder. I struggle to sleep if I’m not totally void. I’ve got used to it but it’s tiring at times. Alcohol makes it worse as you can imagine.

Nothing to be ashamed of. Neither is urinary or faecal incontinence. Trust me I’m a nurse. The vast majority of people over a certain age (younger than you think) wear a pad ‘just in case’.
Should be no stigma attached, it’s really common

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Re: Male Incontinence

Post by Penwortham_Claret » Sun Nov 26, 2023 8:13 pm

It would be really nice if our club were trailblazers with this and provided disposal facilities for those wearing pads on match day particularly with the link to Barry Kilby

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Re: Male Incontinence

Post by Casper2 » Sun Nov 26, 2023 9:45 pm

It seems a few on this thread need a prostate check and or procedure, it’s painful but so rewarding

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Re: Male Incontinence

Post by Jellybean » Sun Nov 26, 2023 10:09 pm

Well done guys, the more health related things like this are talked about (on the women's side as well) the more normal it becomes and people feel less embarrassed and more able to talk. There is no reason to be ashamed. There is every reason to be checked out if you have worries, see a doctor or get a test done.
I like the idea of trailblazing helping with this issue.

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Re: Male Incontinence

Post by Penwortham_Claret » Mon Nov 27, 2023 6:37 am

Some really valuable posts so far on this thread

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Re: Male Incontinence

Post by Tribesmen » Mon Nov 27, 2023 11:01 am

Easy one for every male over 50 , do Barry's test get your bloods done , it maybe nothing at all or it could save your life .

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